October 31, 2010

  • two years

    On Thursday, Superman and I had our two year anniversary, which for me is an extremely impressive milestone, given the fact that I’ve only had one other relationship which survived past the two year mark, and that was FX, and it was ten years ago. Another three months, and Superman will break that record, and be my longest relationship ever. In the more recent past, I’ve had a tendency to enter into relationships somewhat impulsively, realizing too late that they weren’t right for me — the person was too spineless, or too needy, or too arrogant, or too boring, or too ____, (I realize that my faults contributed as well, but I’m talking about these demises from my perspective), but by the time I realized these things, it was too late. I am not nearly as capable when it comes to ending relationships as I am at getting into them, so they tend to limp along for twice as long as their shelf life, which is just a bad scene for everyone involved.

    For some reason, my relationship with Superman has made it to the two year mark, which is an achievement on its own, and for some reason, I still like him.

    It’s crazy, I know.

    I’ve been reading some of the entries that I wrote when our relationship was in its earliest stages (like this or this), and the memories still charm me.

Comments (3)

  • AH! This is so amazing. I was just smiling at this post, and then I clicked on your previously linked entries….

    to come face to face with “jloo, this is for you”– which I had completely forgotten about.
    AND THEN, I scrolled down to the comments, and saw that I had written to you, pining about my man…which, two years later (our two year “first date” anniversary is tomorrow) is now a solid thing.
    Wow. Good job you and I. Who knew things would pan out so well by jumping head first into life.

  • @jloo - Yes!! And your story has been so epic, spanning continents and oceans, with cliffhanger goodbyes and exciting hellos. Yay for both of us :)

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